{"id":1893,"date":"2025-11-10T09:46:54","date_gmt":"2025-11-10T17:46:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogschapman.wpenginepowered.com\/center-for-global-education\/2025\/11\/10\/i-didnt-get-my-first-choice-and-somehow-it-was-better-than-i-could-have-imagined-3\/"},"modified":"2025-11-10T09:46:54","modified_gmt":"2025-11-10T17:46:54","slug":"i-didnt-get-my-first-choice-and-somehow-it-was-better-than-i-could-have-imagined-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/2025\/11\/10\/i-didnt-get-my-first-choice-and-somehow-it-was-better-than-i-could-have-imagined-3\/","title":{"rendered":"I Didn\u2019t Get My First Choice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I had dreamed about studying abroad in Australia since I was in high school; for some reason, I<br \/>\nhave always wanted to travel the globe and visit one of the farthest spots. When I applied, I<br \/>\nnaturally looked at the well-known places, Sydney, Melbourne, and decided on Sydney. I knew it<br \/>\nwould be a reach to get in, but I got my hopes up anyway and dreamed of living in the big city.<\/p>\n<p>So when the email arrived with the subject line, \u201cNot Accepted to Preferred Program\/Next<br \/>\nSteps,\u201d I was crushed. My initial reaction was disbelief, followed by disappointment. For a few<br \/>\ndays, I wondered whether studying abroad would even happen for me. I thought this might be a<br \/>\nsign to give up, that perhaps this experience wasn\u2019t meant to be. I felt like my dream had been<br \/>\ntaken away before it even started, and it was hard to imagine that there could be any silver<br \/>\nlining in the situation.<\/p>\n<p>I scrolled through the list of available programs, initially thinking about other far-off destinations<br \/>\nlike Greece or Peru. I wasn\u2019t particularly drawn to them, though, and then my eyes landed on<br \/>\nanother Australian option: Newcastle. Something about the name, the location, and the pictures<br \/>\nof the city and campus caught my attention. I saw the beautiful view of the Anzac Walk and knew<br \/>\nit would be the place for me. I also saw how close it was to Sydney, and thought if I didn\u2019t like I<br \/>\nwould just take the train to Sydney for weekends.<\/p>\n<p>When I first arrived in Sydney and then traveled to Newcastle, my initial impression was<br \/>\nunderwhelming. Newcastle was much smaller than Sydney, the streets weren\u2019t as nice, and it<br \/>\ndidn\u2019t have the city feel I had imagined. Once I arrived at campus, that all changed. The first<br \/>\nthing I noticed when I arrived to campus was the birds, I could see Cockatoos and Kookaburras<br \/>\neverywhere. I could also hear them, it was never quiet around. Suddenly, I was not just a visitor;<br \/>\nI was part of something new. Adapting to life in Newcastle had its challenges; I was constantly<br \/>\nasked where I was from and why I had chosen to study there &#8211; but I began to embrace the<br \/>\ndifferences and the curiosity that others had about me.<\/p>\n<p>Arriving on the city campus gave me a new view. While Newcastle was a much smaller city, I<br \/>\ngrew to appreciate it. It was easy to get around with public transport, and the city wasn\u2019t hard to<br \/>\nnavigate. Five weeks into my program, I moved from a studio apartment to a ten-person flat with<br \/>\nstudents from all over the world: Australia, France, Korea, and England. Living with such a<br \/>\nmixed group of roommates created a little family. We would have dinners together, game nights,<br \/>\nnight outs. I started to notice myself falling in love with Newcastle.<br \/>\nThe beaches were one of the main highlights of my abroad experiences. Newcastle has many<br \/>\nbeautiful beaches, such as Nobby\u2019s, Bar, Merewether, and Newcastle Beach, the coastline was<br \/>\nstunning. There are also many ocean baths, which are essentially giant pools filled with ocean<br \/>\nwater near the sea. These became my favorite to go with friends to tan, swim, hang out, or even<br \/>\nwatch the sunset.<\/p>\n<p>I really pushed myself out of my comfort zone. I played my first game of rugby(and had no clue<br \/>\nwhat I was doing the whole time, but had tons of fun!) I tried all different types of food, I travelled<br \/>\nall around Australia, and even went to Fiji! On our final night, my entire block gathered at<br \/>\nHickson Street Lookout for a goodbye dinner, and I was shocked by how much this place had<br \/>\ncome to mean to me.<\/p>\n<p>Looking back, I still can\u2019t believe that I was initially disappointed about not being accepted to<br \/>\nSydney. I ended up visiting Sydney only twice, and it honestly felt like enough. Newcastle had<br \/>\ngiven me so much more &#8211; the best friends, memories, experiences. My abroad experience truly<br \/>\nchanged everything and opened my eyes to the fact that the first choice isn\u2019t always the best<br \/>\nchoice, and life takes you where you are supposed to be. Sometimes the second choice might<br \/>\njust be the path your supposed to take, and I am grateful that its how the abroad experience<br \/>\nworked for me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kendall Nelson<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Psychology Major<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Fall 2025<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Australia<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>University of Newcastle<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And Somehow It Was Better Than I Could Have Imagined<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5509,"featured_media":1895,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"custom_author_name":"","chapman_pin_hero_slider":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1893","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-education-abroad"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1893","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5509"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1893"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1893\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1895"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1893"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1893"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.chapman.edu\/center-for-global-education\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1893"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}